每天自信一點(diǎn)點(diǎn)~！

1. Fail More Often.

更多的失敗。

The more challenges you take on the more failures you’ll he, but learning that you can recover, get up and push forward builds confidence.

挑戰(zhàn)越多，失敗就越多，但是你要知道，你很快就能從中走出來，并成為你建立自信心的助推器。

2. Track your accomplishments.

記錄你的成就。

Keep a list of successes, big and small. It’ll help you to see your abilities in a more positive (and realistic) light.

記錄下你的每一次成功，無論大小。它會(huì)讓你用一種更積極(也更為現(xiàn)實(shí))的眼光來看待自己的能力。

3. Don’t compare.

不要和別人比較。

Stop measuring yourself against others. What you see isn’t always real. Making comparisons is a damaging and an inaccurate measure of success anyway.

不要再拿自己和別人比較了。你看到的并不總是真相。無論如何，與別人比較都是對(duì)成功的一種破壞性和錯(cuò)誤性的衡量。

4. Dress for confidence.

人靠衣裝馬靠鞍。

How we dress affects both how we feel about ourselves and the way others perceive us. Expensive clothes aren’t necessary. Put emphasis on good fit, good condition, and appropriateness. Don’t be afraid of some color; black is professional, but color gets noticed.

我們的穿著不僅影響著我們自己的心情，也會(huì)影響別人對(duì)我們的看法。這并不是說必須得穿昂貴的衣服。重點(diǎn)是衣服要搭配好，質(zhì)地要精良，適合我們的氣質(zhì)。不要害怕某些顏色;黑色是會(huì)讓我們看起來更職業(yè)一些，但鮮艷的顏色會(huì)吸引更多的目光。

5. Work on your posture.

良好的姿態(tài)。

People with lower confidence often tend to he poor posture. Stand up, sit up, and keep your head up. It’s an instant confidence booster.

不自信的人往往姿勢(shì)也不好。站有站相，坐有坐相，時(shí)刻保持昂首挺胸的姿態(tài)。這會(huì)讓你的自信心瞬間膨脹。

6. Learn.

學(xué)習(xí)。

The more knowledge you acquire, the more confident you will be. Knowledge is power, and the more powerful you feel, the higher your confidence will be.

學(xué)的越多，人就越自信。知識(shí)就是力量，知識(shí)越豐富，人就越自信。

7. Fitness.

健身。

Better physical condition and appearance gives you more body confidence, and as a bonus, the extra endorphins give you an added energy boost.

良好的身體狀況和外表會(huì)讓你更加自信，同時(shí)，健身所產(chǎn)生的內(nèi)啡肽會(huì)帶給你更多的能量。

8. Start a conversation.

主動(dòng)和別人攀談。

When you find yourself in a social situation, instead of gritating to those people you’re comfortable with, start a conversation with someone you don’t know very well. Eventually getting to know new people will become easier.

社交場(chǎng)合中，不要總是和那些讓你感覺舒服的人在一起，要主動(dòng)和一些不是很熟悉的人交往。這樣，你會(huì)更容易結(jié)識(shí)新的朋友。

9. He miniature goals.

小目標(biāo)和大成功。

Bite sized goals are easier and quicker to achieve and the momentum can give you a boost when attacking bigger goals.

小目標(biāo)實(shí)現(xiàn)起來更容易也更快，并能給你實(shí)現(xiàn)大目標(biāo)的動(dòng)力。

10. Raise your hand.

毛遂自薦。

Volunteer to take on tasks or projects that are a stretch for you. You’ll learn you can do more than you thought you could and so will others.

主動(dòng)承擔(dān)那些能拓展你的能力的項(xiàng)目或工程。你會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)你比想象的更加能干，這是一條放之四海而皆準(zhǔn)的真理。

11. Be around confident people.

和自信的人在一起。

Cultivate relationships with "can-do" people; attitude is contagious. On the other hand, oid "can’t do" people. It works both ways.

多與自信的人交往;態(tài)度是具有感染力的。另一方面，也要盡量避不自信的消極人士，兩種方式都會(huì)起作用。

12. Be your own friend.

自己的朋友。

When you hear that voice in your head, abusing, attacking and belittling you, remind yourself that a friend wouldn’t talk to you in that manner.

當(dāng)你聽到內(nèi)心有聲音在誹謗你、攻擊你、貶低你，告訴自己真正的朋友是不會(huì)這樣對(duì)你的。

13. Rely on your instincts.

相信自己的直覺。

When you trust your intuition, and listen to those gut feelings, you’ll become more confident in the knowledge that you do know what’s right for you.

相信并跟隨你的直覺，你會(huì)更加自信，知道什么最適合自己。

14. Keep practicing.

不斷實(shí)踐。

Practice the skills you need to succeed. The more you practice, the more confident you become. This is true of every type of skill.

在那些能幫助你實(shí)現(xiàn)成功的技能上多加練習(xí)。實(shí)踐的越多就越自信。這對(duì)于每一種技能來說都是如此。

Confidence helps you to be more secure in your abilities and more positive in your attitude. It also encourages you to be more assertive to take on more challenges, and to improve your skills. As an added benefit, you’ll attract like-minded